Trust me when I say;

  1. You can and will survive off of your own mission and passion. Never be afraid to love what you have especially as someone who is very fortunate enough to have their own. A roof, food, transportation and loved ones. So treat yourself and give back as often as you can. Create your own standards of abundance. Live in gratitude and never allow what you don’t have from forgetting what you do have.
  2. You are allowed to grieve out loud. You should name the person, the thing, the pain. Losses hurt and are mostly unexpected. No matter if it’s an actual death of a loved one, a friendship, relationship, job, opportunity, resource. It’s not to be battled alone. You will always have people in your life who want to help you carry the weight. It’s up to you to choose who you want to share weights with and you don’t have to choose everyone. Which brings me to my next point.
  3. Let people go when they want to, with love and appreciation. No matter how far they go. It’s okay to give back what you receive. This is self preservation. Instead of asking questions to someone who are not getting answers directly from, ask within. Focus inward and when you project outward, assume the best. Even if that means some people never come back. This teaches you the boundary that you cannot over pour and neither can anyone else.
  4. With mistakes, come losses. That might again be a job, opportunity, relationship. But you should not be hard on yourself over it as someone who has a true growth mindset. This person understands how to learn from their mistakes. They will have the epiphany that it was destined to help them prosper. Whatever is left after, will get the best of you.

Softsafesoul

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